We know very little about women who buy sexual services, despite the existence of online escort sites, strip clubs that cater for women, and international research that shows that women buy sex. Their pictures were taken on phones, in mirrors, with messy bedrooms behind them. Women who have had a break-up or painful divorce find it easier to have sex without strings attached. Of course, it might also be because the patriarchy has systematically destroyed female sexuality and made the idea of women purchasing sex — from male or female sex workers — into a source of shame. When I caught up with Sarah and Natalie, I asked what their research had revealed about women buying sex. I left halfway through, and he decided to keep texting and calling me.
Women who pay for sex is a very under-researched area, but that is about to change.
If Men Pay For Sex, Why Can't Women?
I also see sex workers as educators. By entering your email address and clicking on the sign up button below, you are agreeing to receive the latest daily news, news features and service updates from the i via email. Others who have been in a long relationship wonder what sex is like with somebody else, especially a man who specialises in being a good lover. When the marriage ended, Cheryl decided it was finally time to explore her fantasies of being dominated by a woman. The quality of sex on offer is often much of the appeal of hiring an escort. Women who pay for sex is a very under-researched area, but that is about to change.